My father passed away this morning. I trust that there will be much for me to say after the haze lifts and the tears abate, likely more than I'll be able to capture here. When I say I loved this man more than words, I didn't really think I could mean it literally.
I wish you had been lucky enough to know him too.
I wish you had been lucky enough to know him too.
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Oh, Kris. I am so incredibly sorry.
Kris,
I miss my dad too! It's been 10 years but every so often I will think of some of the things he told me, or some situation will come up & I just know what he would say. Grief, for me has mostly been replaced with fond rememberance.
I will remember both our fathers in my prayers tonight.
Remember that your father, like mine wants nothing but the best for you and to carry on as he did.
Oh God. I'm so sorry.
Oh Kris, I'm very sorry. You are in my thoughts.
I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss.
I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My thoughts are with you and family.
My thoughts with you and your family too. Just a random reader who knows that sometimes feeling some good vibes helps.. just a touch.
i'm not sure it helps to know that a stranger who lurks has you in their thoughts, but i will say it anyway.
i'm very sorry for your loss.
i wish i could come up with something witty but i can't.
i'm so sorry.
My condolences. I lost my mom when I was 22.
The circumstances are certainly different, but the pain of losing a parent too young is the same.
Oh god, Kris. I'm so sorry.
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayer are with you & your family.
Nothing left to be said. Death leaves a gaping hole whose edges only time can make smoother.
I wish serenity for you, and closeness with those you love so you can bear the pain a little more.
Kris, I'm very sorry for you. I lost my dad the day after I graduated from college in a motorcycle accident. Nothing prepares you for this, I hope you and your family will be OK. It'll be 8 years this May and I still miss my dad every day but telling stories about him, even dumb little things helps. Write about him as much as you can. If I could hug you, I would.
I am so heartbroken by reading this. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry.
Kris, I'm very sorry.
Honey, I'm so sorry.
Oh Kris, I'm so sorry. That's terrible.
No words can bring comfort to you. Nothing but time will help. I'm so sorry.
So sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your dad with your readers via your colorful and touching posts.
{{{hugs}}}
I am so sorry - I know you loved him very much. I wish peace & healing for you and your family.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is clear from your posts how much you loved him.
Hang in there. Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.
I'm really sorry for your loss. I look forward to reading some of the great stories about your Dad. Be well.
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. I just recently found your blog and this is my first time commenting. I wish I could have come out of lurkdom under different circumstances. I'm sending cyberhugs your way.
I am so sorry for the loss of someone so important to you.
May your memories of him always include gratitude that he was a part of your life.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts.
I know it's not enough, but I'm sorry. You were so very lucky to have had that love.
We will talk soon.
Hugs from the 3.
I can't even imagine what you must be going through.
As you say: Thinking of you, bean.
I'm sorry.
So sorry to hear of your loss...:(
I'm sorry. Sending prayers to you and your family.
Sweetie,
My dad died on December 26th. I know exactly how you feel. I am so sorry and my prayers are with you and your family.
Sorry to read the bad news. It must be odd to share such private news over such a public venue, but know that we send you thoughts of sympathy and strength, in whatever ratio you need them.
I am so very sorry for your loss, Kris. We are all thinking of you and sending you our love.
Hugs
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.
Kris - I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Through your words we know what an incredible guy he was. I also know the apple didn't fall far from the tree.
My hugs both virtual and real are here for you, my friend. It's never easy to lose someone you loved so much.
Be gentle with yourself in these coming weeks.
love you!!
Oh shit. Nothing much I can say when you lose a piece of your heart.
::hug::
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
oh sweetie, i'm so sorry. you're in my thoughts and prayers. love ya.
becky
it's never, ever easy to lose a loved one. not even when you can see it coming. almost worse then. i remember those feelings as if it wasn't 16 years ago that my dad passed away.
you are in my thoughts. sending much love.
Mamma sent me over. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Ah Kris, I'm so very sorry. Words are so inadequate at times like this. There's nothing else to say, except I'm thinking about you.
I've been there and it sucks, no two ways about it.
Oh man...I am so, so sorry...
I am very sorry to hear about your father's passing. I lost my mother in October and not a day goes by that I don't miss her. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am an avid reader of your blog and your post about your father made it seem as though the two of you had a very close relationship. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
You're in my thoughts, Kris. I'm so sorry.
I am so very sorry Kris. If you need anything we're here for you. I lost my mother when I was 24, and it is a terrible thing. It does get better over the years, but you will always remember and miss him. One day at a time, ok honey?
Kris, I'm so very sorry. I lost my mom almost four years ago and the pain... There are no words for it.
You and your family are in my thoughts.
I am so sorry for your loss. My father passed away when I was 17 and that was over 20 years ago now. It's hard to believe he has been gone longer now than I even had him in my life. My thoughts are with you in this time.
I'm sorry. I'm so so sorry.
I'm sorry - my heart and thoughts are with you. I understand the haze and will continue to think about you as you navigate through this over the next few months. I've enjoyed your family stories even though they are sometimes crazy and dysfunctional but such is life eh?
I already posted but then I stumpled across this that I wrote when my dad died. Maybe it will have some meaning for you too.
http://loripoetry.blogspot.com/2004/08/and-daddy-we-love-you.html
My deepest sympthathies to you and yours.
Oh my God, baby, I'm so sorry.
Oh, I'm so sorry :(
We're all thinking of you...hope you're doing OK.
I lost my own father just over a year ago. Mom a few years before that. Losing a parent is...well...there are no words and yes, it does leave a rent in the fabric that can't be repaired. The finality of it all. My thoughts are with you. I know you mourn.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry, I can't imagine the pain you must be feeling. I'm sending you my thoughts and support.
I'm sorry for your loss. It reminds me that I want to visit my father in California in ten weeks, and how I take for granted that I will have that time to plan a trip at my convenience. It sounds like you were very lucky to have such a great parent. You were blessed to have such good memories.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Kris, I am SO sorry. Let us know if you need anything.
I'm so very sorry.
Take care.
Sending all my love, hugs and prayers for you and your family.
It's so very hard to lose a parent.
I'll be thinking about you, sweets.
So. Sorry.
I read it from Mamma last night and have been thinking about you ever since.
I love the story about how he fell asleep eating Oreos. He sounds like that charming kind of daddy - the kind that all your friends love, and you have to share a little bit of even though you probably wanted him all to yourself.
I'm so sorry, Kris.
Sweetie...I am so sorry to hear that. I also have no words that could possibly comfort you right now, but know you're in my thoughts...xoxo
I am so, so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending strength and peace.
My deepest sympathies to you in your loss.
I'm so sorry to hear that; all the best to you and your family and friends.
my deepest sympathies.
i lost my husband 3 years ago. it helped just a little every time someone hugged me and just said "I'm sorry you're hurting. You are in my thoughts."
so, from a passing stranger,
here's a hug
My thoughts are with you, I am very sorry for your loss.
My deepest condolences for a loss I can't begin to imagine.
So sorry to hear. I wish you and your family the best in this difficult time.
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This is where google reader on my phone fails me, because I can't reply from there. So I couldn't immediately respond to this, and say I'm so sorry. You didn't need this, did you? Nobody does. May you find grace in these days of bewilderment, in this week of grieving and anger, in this time of remembering, somehow.
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Kris, my dad passed away two years ago this month. Like you I loved my dad more than I could ever verbalized.
Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am sorry for your loss,
Leslie
You're right; there are no words.
Only that I'm sorry, and you're in my thoughts.
~Jess
kris, i'm sorry. i know (oh god, i know), and i'm sorry.
Many thoughts for you and your family.
I am so sorry. I have no idea of what you are going through and what I imagine is your enormous pain but know you are in my thoughts. So, so sorry!
Delurking to send you a simple wish of peace & strength. Take care.
Kris, I'm so very sorry.
Oh sweet girl. I am so, so, so sorry. My heart is just breaking for you. Remember that you have so many people who love you and are wishing they could take away your pain.
Oh dear god, there is nothing to say to make it better. Our father's are supposed to be strong and invincible and live forever. My heart aches for you. Please remember that where a good soul has passed there is light in its wake. You were lucky to have him, and he you. The rest of us are lucky to have some of the light he left. Peace.
I am so sorry.
Hi Kris,
I just stopped by after a long long absence to see what you are up to. I'm so sorry to hear this news, and I can only send thoughts of comfort and condolence your way. I hope that you find yourself surrounded by loving support at this time.
SG
I am so sorry. You are 100% right. There are no words.
I am very sorry for your loss, Kris.
You're right, there are no words. So sorry.
I'm very sorry to hear that. I wish peace and calmness for you and your family so you can properly mourn and celebrate his life. I hope that, in time, his life will shine brighter than his death and it will make you smile on a regular basis.
Deeply sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.
I am so very sorry. In the short time I have been reading, I have loved the times you have shared stuff about your Dad. I think I emailed your post about him eating an oreo and you thinking he wasn't breathing to everyone on my personal email list.
Godspeed.
Hope you find some comfort in your memories of him. So sorry.
My condolences for your loss. At least he is free of any pain now.
I'm so so sorry.
I am de-lurking to tell you how sorry I am. There is a big community of people out here whose hearts are hurting for you.
Take care of yourself.
Oh, Kris. I am so very sorry. I'm sure he was a very special and incredible man. Sending you hugs.
I am so sorry too. Please take care.
I'm so sorry, Kris. I hope you find comfort in your memories of him.
Hi Kris:
I'm so sorry. I lost my Dad almost exactly 2 years ago. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending virtual hugs.
Wendy
You and your family are in my prayers. I'm so sorry, doll.
Oh goodness. I'm so sorry Kris. Prayers to you and your family.
I am so very sorry to hear that.
I haven't been reading long but send good thoughts and will keep you in my prayers.
I'm so sorry, Kris.
That's a shame. I'm really sorry. I'm sure he was a wonderful man and I know it sucks to lose him.
I am late getting the news. I'm so very sorry and so sad for you and your family.
Also late tuning in...very very sorry, Kris.
I'm so very, very sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm sorry about your dad, Kris.
If I can help, I am only as far as your keyboard... until then, henag in there.
Sending love your way.
I'm sorry for your loss. To lose a parent must be a terrible thing.
Your readers love you and are thinking of you...xoxo
I'm really sorry. I wish I had better words.
Oh, oh, oh, Kris. I'm so very, very, very sorry. Losing a parent is both inevitable and devastating. It can seem so unreal and so unthinkable.
God, I'm sorry.
Hugs. Warmth. Hugs.
You and yours are in my thoughts. I'm so sorry for your loss.
little late to the game, but also -- sending you and your family my thoughts during this difficult time.
I had lost touch of you site for about the last month. (sorry)
But saw a picture of you on flickr with mamrosa and thought to re look you up. :)
Then I saw the post about your dad.
I wanted to share this with you:
http://www.justdawn.net/2008/01/17/just-good-bye-to-my-dad/
Glad you are back in my bookmarks!
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